Incazelo yesichazamazwi ethi "udlame lwasekhaya" yilena: ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba, ngokomzwelo, ngokocansi, noma kwengqondo okwenzeka phakathi kobudlelwane basekhaya noma obuseduze, okufana phakathi kwabashadile, abalingani, noma amalungu omndeni. Udlame lwasekhaya lungathatha izinhlobo eziningi, okuhlanganisa udlame olungokomzimba, ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi, ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzwelo noma kwengqondo, ukuhlukunyezwa kwezomnotho, nokulawula ngempoqo. Kuyinkinga enkulu futhi egcwele yonke indawo ethinta abantu babo bonke ubudala, ubulili, nezizinda zomphakathi.